I recently came across a pretty negative review of Hush, Hush by Becca Fitzpatrick that hinted at some serious allegations toward the story.
Some of the dangerous and sexual undertones of the book were discussed and a deep concern was expressed over the effect this could have on teenage girls. Is the book teaching them that a healthy relationship means that you get involved with someone who acts like a huge jerk? Treats you like crap? Threatens you with violence? Does it help girls to read a book that glorifies the idea of the alpha male who objectifies and endangers the MC?
I have no intention of butting heads here, or calling out the reviewer or even disagreeing with some of their points. Many of the points are valid. Patch is not a perfect gentleman. But he's not supposed to be. Becca set out to write the ultimate bad boy love story, and she did. She spent 5 years perfecting her craft and writing and revising and achieved her dream of becoming not just a published writer, but a New York Times Best seller and that is AWESOME. And none of that achievement should be dimmed by people who suddenly fear her book.
We've said it before here and I'll say it again. Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and opinions and the freedom to express them in whatever manner they choose. If the reviewer somehow finds her way here and reads this post, then you should know I am totally supportive of you writing what you felt and feeling the way you did. Just as much as I support Becca's writing of Hush, Hush. I also know you recognized that this is a fantasy not real life. The review was not the problem.
BUT...here is where I became concerned and uncomfortable. This review has been reposted and has led to comments along the lines of:
"I was going to read this, but now I won't."
"I no longer want to read this story."
"I'm spreading the word that this is a bad book...pulling it from my library...telling students not to read it...etc"
"What is wrong with the author? Why does she want to promote such negativity?"
These kinds of comments make me so uncomfortable, I can't even tell you. Because this is the start of censorship and it's reminiscent (though granted on a MUCH MUCH smaller scale) of the witch hunts and attacks on Harry Potter. I hate censorship. I hate the idea of banning books. I hate the idea of believing we have any right to decide what a teen can and can't read, what they are ready for, what truths to tell them and what truths to hide. I hate the idea that people can see a book as dangerous and attack it. A teen girl is no less likely to seek out an abusive relationship after reading Hush, Hush or even Twilight, than a middle schooler is about to become a member of the occult after reading Harry Potter.
Teens are dealing with more crap than ever these days. They know and understand harsh realities that even those of us who were teenagers half a decade ago didn't have to go through. The world is rapidly changing, and teens are rapidly adjusting. They're smart. They're savvy. And they are tough cookies. And if they want to read a book--any book--that is fantastic. Because reading rocks.
Now back to Hush, Hush, if you're the sort of person who just doesn't like romance, or bad boys or angels or fantasy....then sure, Hush, Hush might not be the book for you. But you shouldn't refrain from reading it or sharing it with others because you think it's damaging, or it sends out a bad message--especially if you haven't even read the book, which is the impression I had from the majority of people commenting. That's what truly concerns me. How can you have an opinion on something you haven't read?
Most teens know the difference between a normal relationship and an extremely unhealthy one, which yes- it does often gets glorified and depicted in paranormal romance. And if there are teens or adults reading a book along those lines, believing it's sexy to threaten violence, believing its healthy for a person to want to kill themselves over you, dreaming of a guy who stalks you...I have a hard time believing that those thoughts and desires stemmed from the reading of a book. Unhealthy ideas about relationships stem from a deeper source than that and are often the fault of other factors, not a story.
Please don't jump on a bandwagon of book bashing or hide a book. Discuss it with the teens you know if you're concerned. Instead of telling the school board to ban it, I'd LOVE to see a teacher make Hush, Hush welcome in class, or start a book club and open up discussions with their students about the themes and events inside.
No YA book deserves to be bashed, banned, or boycotted. Writers put their hearts and souls into their work and try their best to create the vision of the art they feel inside of them.
I have corresponded with Becca several times and I can tell you with confidence, she's a lovely person and had only the best of intentions at heart when writing Hush, Hush. Sure she likes the bad boy and can write some mean and sexy lines for fallen angel Patch...but I'm pretty sure she also knows the difference between someone like Patch on the page and someone like Patch in real life.
I love Hush, Hush. I think it's awesome. It's a fast paced thrilling whirlwind of a book and I cannot wait for Crescendo to release. Patch is sexy. He's fun. He makes for a pretty kick butt book and a fun way to spend the night reading.
But would I want Patch as a boyfriend? Um, no thanks.
Would I make out with Patch? Now we're talking ;)
Books are meant to be read and discussed, not banned and feared. If you come across a book in the future that concerns you, don't jump the gun, but use it to open the lines of communication and discussion--it's one of the best things you can do. And if you read a review that brings up concerns about a particular book, I challenge you to read it yourself and see in which ways it makes you question life.